Tag: Practice

  • The Value of Mindfulness Practice: 13 Quotes from Women Leading the Movement

    The Value of Mindfulness Practice: 13 Quotes from Women Leading the Movement

    Earlier this year, the Mindful editorial team had the joy of interviewing 10 women leading the charge to make the world a more kind, connected place for our 2025 edition of the Powerful Women of the Mindfulness Movement feature article. With each conversation, we were inspired by these women’s stories, heartened by their dedication to true compassion, and puzzled over how we were going to fit so much wisdom into such short profiles. Spoiler alert: Despite our best efforts, a lot of great stuff ended up having to be cut. Here, we’re sharing some of their wise words about mindfulness that didn’t make it into the feature, but deserve to be shared. 

    To learn more about The Powerful Women of the Mindfulness Movement: 2025, check out the feature article here, and guided meditations by the women here

    13 Quotes About Mindfulness and Meditation

    1. “I think the absolute superpower of mindfulness is that it’s always available. We can find mindfulness in any moment. We don’t need any equipment.” – Vidyamala Burch

    2. “If you put 50 different brains together in a circle and you look at all of them, they’re all going to be completely different. They’re all going to be thinking and perceiving their environment in individual and unique ways. And they’re all perfect exactly as they are. Same with mindfulness: Every single person who sits down to meditate is doing so through the fabric of their wiring and their brain structure, so it’s going to be different for every single solitary person.” – Sue Hutton

    “Every single person who sits down to meditate is doing so through the fabric of their wiring and their brain structure, so it’s going to be different for every single solitary person.”

    Sue Hutton

    3. “Mindfulness doesn’t have to be all serious, something we only do when we’re stuck or when there’s suffering. We can even play with mindfulness. When we are having a good time, a good conversation, in the good moments when everything is going well for us, we tend to forget about mindfulness.” – Shalini Bahl

    4. “What I understand, through my practice, is that we all get the journeys we’re meant to have.” – Nanea Reeves

    5. “As a pastor, I believe in this process of mindfulness meditation. You have to own your own space, and so it’s not one-size-fits-all. Everybody approaches it differently. Nevertheless, it’s still mindfulness. It’s still meditation, it’s still tuning in, and it’s still allowing yourself to be present with yourself in the moment. You’re not in control of externals, but you do own the process, your own reckoning, your body structure and system.” – Brenda K. Mitchell

    “You have to own your own space, and so it’s not one-size-fits-all. Everybody approaches it differently. Nevertheless, it’s still mindfulness.”

    Brenda K. Mitchell

    6. “The power of contemplative practice is that it makes us observe what we are bringing, and then question that. Not falling to the inflation of, like, ‘All of what we do is right,’ but rather like, ‘Wait a second, is this truly helpful?’ And if not, what needs to change?” – Yuria Celidwen

    7. “Be present. Let go of clinging. Release into flow and love. Breathe in, breathe out. And that’s kind of it, really.” – Vidyamala Burch

    8. “When we are disconnected from the humanity of ourselves, we behave in ways that are less humane, and that paves the way to see others not in their humanity.” – Shelly Harrell

    9. “The more we can bathe ourselves in self-compassion and realize we’re okay exactly as we are, then we can build that strength, and that gives us a little bit more of a foundation to handle the tough stuff.” – Sue Hutton

    10. “Just by sitting in the moment to connect to our breath, to try to shift our mindset to just being grateful for the gift of life—which, you know, a breathing practice will definitely connect you to—even if I don’t feel good about who I am in the world in that moment, the fact that I’m taking that time to approach self-care is an act of self-love.” – Nanea Reeves

    “Who we truly are, what we truly are, has been calling us home.”

    Caverly Morgan 

    11. “What we long for is our very being. We are what we’ve been striving after. Who we truly are, what we truly are, has been calling us home. It’s possible, then, to rest in who you are rather than trying to become who you think you should be. So if you meditate to be a better person or to be more compassionate, you’ll always be busy trying to be a better person or trying to be more compassionate. But if you practice mindfulness because you’re just in love with resting in your own luminous, infinite being, you’ll always be in love.” – Caverly Morgan

    12. “Clearly, within mindfulness, if we really look at the teachings more deeply, interconnectedness is core, but a lot of the teaching front-facing is how it can help you with stress and be more happy and be more individually not attached to the world in some way…There’s a different vibe you can feel when you’re in spaces that are emphasizing things like detachment and bliss.” – Shelly Harrell

    13. “What we call pain is a mixture of all those factors: sensations, resistance, resentment, breath holding, tension, stress, anxiety, fear, all that. And what we can do with mindfulness is we can interrupt that cascade.” – Vidyamala Burch



    Source link

  • 12 Minute Meditation: A Guided Practice to Focus the Mind

    12 Minute Meditation: A Guided Practice to Focus the Mind

    Meditation practice often feels like something to get through, something good for us, like medicine. But as we become more familiar with practicing mindfulness, we can begin to enjoy it as an opportunity to simply be—to inhabit our body and focus the mind on being wherever we are, without having to do anything in particular.

    Obviously there’s nothing wrong with “doing” things—we have to do things. Doing things is great, but doing things is also challenging. Having some time when we can just be is refreshing.

    No question that simply being is equally as challenging because some scary thoughts might crop up. But as we become more familiar with the process, we realize we can focus the mind and we don’t have to fully engage those thoughts or get caught up in them.

    If it’s a particularly painful time, the meditation practice will be about being with that pain. We can allow it to be a bit “discontinuous,” that is, we see little gaps in the pain where bits of relaxation, and joy even, can poke through.

    So, in this longer meditation practice, let’s take the time to enjoy being here.

    A Guided Meditation to Focus the Mind

    12 Minute Meditation: A Meditation to Focus the Mind with Barry Boyce

    1. The first place to start is with spending a short period of time, in a relaxed way, on the posture. We begin with our seat. The point about our seat and our legs is just to have a base, to be supported. Nothing special about it.
    • If you’re on a chair: bottoms of the feet are touching the ground.
    • If you’re on a cushion: Legs can be simply crossed in front of you or they could be in a lotus posture or half-lotus posture.
    • The upper body is upright but not stiff.
    • Our hands can rest on our thighs in front of us with our upper arms parallel to our upper body.
    • Our eyes can be open or closed, and our gaze is slightly down. Just a slight feeling of humbleness about that. And with the gaze down we’re slightly focussed inward. Our mouth can be just slightly open or closed.

    That’s a practice in itself: just taking the time, taking the luxury, to establish our posture. If you have various bodily issues you just need to make adjustments for those.

    That’s a practice in itself: just taking the time, taking the luxury, to establish our posture

    2. Now, simply pay attention to your breathing. Now we pay attention to the breath as it comes in and goes out. The nice thing about the breath is that it’s reliable. It’s always going to be there if we’re alive. Sharon Salzberg talks about the importance of faith, and many people talk about trust. It’s a very simple type of faith or trust that something is going to continue to be there. As you find yourself lost in thought and you notice that because you have trust in the breath, you know that it will be there when you bounce off that thought and come back to the breath.

    3. Pay attention to body and breath together. As we come back to and notice our breath, we’re also noticing our body, so it’s a kind of a whole body experience, resting our attention on the breath. We can also feel the temperature in the room and appreciate our ability to sense the world—that we are a sensory mechanism. The world touches us. We have an interplay going on with the world. That’s something we can appreciate. Pleasure and pain come from that sensing of the world.

    4. For a little while, practice returning to the breath when the mind wanders. We’re taking time to simply be present and to develop presence. Presence meaning: able to be present for whatever comes up—up or down, could be very intense thoughts. How did the world begin. Why are we still driving so many cars? Who invented the car anyway? How do cars work? Can be cognitive, random thoughts like that. Or, could be intense emotional thoughts. Emotional thoughts carry with them a lot of “color,” and a lot of energy, and a lot of feeling of movement in the body: “I hate that,” ” love that,”—lots feeling tone to those thoughts. They can be persistent. They keep coming up, no matter how many times we go back to the breath. Or, thoughts could be just about simple sensation it’s an itch in your toe.

    5. Mindfulness is an equal opportunity process: whatever comes up, we just notice it and come back. If it comes up again in another shape or form, you know to sit and come back. There’s a certain amount of simplicity and dullness about that, but over time that dullness becomes natural relaxation. There’s a feeling of strength that comes from being able to be present with whatever arises and not being so inclined to run from it.

    6. Some people like to use the slogan “The present is pleasant,” but that’s not really true, necessarily. The present can contain whatever is present in that moment. If a family member has just died, it’s not going to be particularly pleasant. Taking a moment to meditate and focus the mind will be about being with that, not trying to create a pleasant experience for yourself. Usually, we’re trying to get something out of an experience. In this case, paradoxically, we are just trying to be with, rather than trying to get something out of it.

    7. As we notice thoughts again and again in meditation practice, the thoughts begin to have less solid substance to them. They can feel less like something we have to fight with. We can have an appreciation that they are not facts, they’re just formulations that emerge in the mind and that beneath them is some kind of presence and awareness that continues, whatever thoughts may arise and dwell for a while and then go.



    Source link

  • The Power of Thanks: How a Daily Gratitude Practice Can Change Your Life

    The Power of Thanks: How a Daily Gratitude Practice Can Change Your Life

    The Power of Thanks: How a Daily Gratitude Practice Can Change Your Life

    In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of daily life. With constant demands and deadlines, it’s natural to feel stressed, overwhelmed, and even grateful-less. But what if you told someone that a simple change to your daily routine can literally transform your life? Would they believe you?

    Let me introduce you to the incredible power of gratitude and how incorporating a daily gratitude practice into your routine can bring about profound benefits, starting with a sense of immense positivity and happiness. Read on to discover how harnessing the power of thanks can change your life, inside and out!

    The Science of Gratitude

    Research has revealed that practicing gratitude rewires our brains to focus on the good things in life. When we engage with gratitude, our brains secrete dopamine, a feel-good neurotransmitter, resulting in increased happiness, stress relief, and better mental health. In a groundbreaking study, Dr. Barbara Frederickson, a positivity psychology researcher, found that the brain’s reward system lit up when participants thought of three things they were thankful for each day (Seligman, 2002).

    Starting Small: A Simple Habit to Cultivate

    Transforming your life with gratitude may seem daunting, but remember, it’s not a significant overhaul; just a minor tweak to your daily routine. Begin with an attainable goal, even a single minute daily spent expressing gratitude. That’s all – one single minute, a fraction of a typical adult’s daily screen time ( Statista, 2019).

    Here are 2 simple ways to weave gratitude into your day:

    • Morning Reflection: Begin your day with gratitude journaling. Grab your journal, and as the morning sun rises, recount 3 things you appreciate in your life – significant, trivial, or any memory that brings you warmth. Write them down (verbally or with ink), and take a breath of gratitude.
    • Pre-Sleep Pause: Take a moment, in bed, before lights off to reflect on the highs from your day. Who were the people you’ve helped, or whose acts of kindness touched you?

    These small habits foster new neural pathways, bridging your brain’s "What’s wrong?" thinking toward the "What’s going right?" perspective. Soon, you’ll catch yourself pondering the little and large blessings in life even more frequently.

    Positive Ripple Effects: Shared Joy and Kindness

    One of the most spectacular byproducts of practicing gratitude is the ripple effect – you’ll start radiating positivity, inspiring those around you to do the same! When you:

    • Share your gratitude publicly: write a heartfelt "thanks" on social media or create a gratitude log – sharing your appreciation has contagious benefits.
    • Encourage friends and family: join hands with loved ones for gratitude exercises, promoting interconnected joy and understanding.

    Spreading gratitude fosters genuine connections, strengthens bonds, and creates a network of empathetic, resilient friends, family, and fellow beings.

    How to Overcome Initial Difficulties

    Like most changes, incorporating gratitude habits takes time and gentle adjustment. Don’t get disheartened if it becomes overwhelming or you find it tough to maintain initially! Follow these tips:

    • Start small: Set reminders to keep your habit punctual and manageable.
    • Explore different methods: Personalize your gratitude approach until it feels natural. This could be writing, reciting, or speaking them out loud.
    • Visual cues: Use stickers, pictures, or quotes around the house to remind yourself about gratitude.

    Remember, perseverance breeds progress. Allow a couple of weeks to witness transformation, and when discouraged, recall the powerful force gratitude has on mental, physical, and social wellness.

    Breaking Streaks and Resurfacing

    Life inevitably sends detours, leaving habits by the wayside – no worries! Resurging gratitude is like rewinding a tape reel back to the starting point of growth. When a week has passed without reflecting or acknowledging gratitude:

    • Apologize to your mindset (yes, say ‘oops’ to your habits – it’s humbling)
    • Re-empathize with your experiences; your gratitude journey
    • Set a new commitment or ‘reset’ schedule and be patient

    This refreshing ‘reset’ sparks internal fortification, allowing gratitude growth to resume.

    Conquering Chronic Complainers and Filling a Happiness Gap

    Cognitive researchers have identified two detrimental states: chronic complainer or chronic optimist – do you identify as an individual who tends towards relentless positivity or perpetual disappointment (Chen et al., 2015)?

    Break through the negativity gap: Embrace gratitude by transforming what you focus on!

    Shift your attention towards a silver lining, however trivial. This subtle habit hack not only re-wire brain patterns but helps those stuck in perpetual grumps become more resilient to frustrations, and even adopt hopeful dispositions.

    Concluding Thoughts and Daily Dose of Thanks

    Now, as we culminate this journey of reevaluating the extraordinary capacity of gratitude, ask yourself:

    • What gratitude journey has been most memorable and empowering for you? Take time to reflect.
    • Is there someone, especially kind and selfless, worth recognizing? Express heartfelt thank you’s today and watch a ripple of positive transformation begin.

    In an oversimplified world, incorporating the practice of gratitude could well become the most groundbreaking achievement for your mental health. Gratitude is no trifle; it transforms thoughts, shapes relationships, and nourishes the soul – make space for it!

    So, take a few quiet moments to acknowledge those threads woven into the intricate fabric of your life:

    |
    Thank you…

    – The sun for your every breath
    – Nature’s bounty for sustenance and comfort
    – Relationships cherished
    – Opportunities nurtured

    For even as these whispers take shape, be receptive to the profound energy you create. Your new "What’s going right?" thinking will radiate happiness, positivity, and purpose!

    Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs):

    Q: I get anxiety about expressing gratitude openly due to fear of dependency. How can I bridge the gap?
    A: Explore private gratitude journaling, sharing with one trustful person, or a secure online platform like Thanks.me.

    Q: Isn’t gratitude just another mood booster? What sets it apart?
    A: Scientific evidence shows gratitude affects profound physiological and psychological responses (emotional regulation, optimism, and resilience), influencing personal growth and connections – unlike mere mood enhancements.

    Q: How long can it take to feel transformation, and what kind of dedication is required?
    A: Consistency over dedication, even a small percentage daily, can trigger measurable results within 30 to 60 days. Don’t worry about failure, recommit, and learn.

    Q: If an ungrateful mind persistently dominates, does one surrender to the chaos of circumstances?
    A: Never – acknowledge the reality (temporarily) but shift perspective, focusing on your choices, and acknowledge, once more, small pleasures that bring solace in chaos.

    Remember: ‘You can’t thank everything without being grateful first’

    (Please note that for full references, a revised bibliography is available on [Requesting Bibliography, Statista, or link]).

  • 11-Minute Breathing Practice for Awareness

    11-Minute Breathing Practice for Awareness

    Susan Kaiser-Greenland guides us through one of the oldest meditation practices called “Sit and Know You’re Sitting.”

    One of the oldest meditation practices is also one of the simplest: Sit, and know you’re sitting. Let’s give this simple breathing practice for awareness a try:

    1. Get comfortable, with your back straight. Close your eyes and relax. Gently move your attention away from what you’re thinking to the sensations in your forehead and around your eyes. Soften and let go of any tension. Smile a little and soften your jaw. Let your shoulders feel heavy and drop away from your neck. Relax your upper arms, your lower arms, your hands, your fingers.

    2. Relax into your breath. Place one hand over your heart. Let your shoulders drop even more. Feel your breath move your hand up, then down, up down, up down. Now move your hand to your belly, soften, let go and relax. Breathing in, know you’re breathing in. Breathing out, know you’re breathing out. Let your hands rest easy on your lap and let go of any tension in your upper legs. Soften your knees, soften your lower legs, let your feet feel heavy and sink into the ground.

    3. Notice the feeling of breathing. Notice how your body feels as you relax and drop. The part of your mind that is noticing—that’s awareness. It’s nothing special. You don’t need to look for it. You don’t need to do anything at all. Awareness is always here. Settle in and stay with your breathing for a few moments. Trust that your breath will find a natural rhythm. Trust that awareness is always here. Breathing in, know you’re breathing in. Breathing out, know you’re breathing out.

    The part of your mind that is noticing—that’s awareness.

    4. If your mind gets busy, don’t worry, that’s what it’s designed to do. To steady your attention silently, say “in” when you breathe in, silently say “out” when you breathe out. Thoughts, images, and sensations, they’ll come and go. The goal is to notice them without thinking about them. Don’t try to stop them. Don’t try to make them go away. Don’t try to change them, they’ll change on their own. No need to reflect on them now. There’s plenty of time to do that later. No need to add anything to your experience in this breathing practice for awareness. Just stay with it, when sounds appear, hear them, when sensations appear, feel them, when thoughts and images come to mind, notice them. That’s how we sit and know we’re sitting.

    5. Watch what’s happening in your mind and body the way you’d watch a movie or a TV show. The storyline will twist and turn, threads of the plot will pass by, something new will emerge. You don’t need to look for this show, just settle in, relax, and it will come to you. Notice how those thoughts and sensations and images, they don’t have much heft, like the plot in a movie there’s no real substance to them. Nothing substantial to dig into or to hook onto, nothing to shut down, to push away, or to change.

    6. You don’t need to do anything at all. Let go and settle back, relax your mind, smile a little bit, sit and know you’re sitting. Before we close, take a moment to notice the ever-changing, always connected web of causes and conditions that lead to this and every single moment. If someone comes to mind who has been helpful, silently say thanks.

    Never Miss a Meditation

    Enter your email below to get new podcast episodes delivered straight to your inbox! You’ll also get insights from expert mindfulness teachers and exclusive deals on Mindful Shop products, events, and more.



    Source link

  • Mindful Reading Guide: Contemporary Authors to Deepen Your Practice

    Mindful Reading Guide: Contemporary Authors to Deepen Your Practice

    Literature allows us to take time out to stop and listen to the important and diverse voices and varied perspectives on mindfulness. The following contemporary authors have woven mindfulness into their works, inviting readers into mindful reading to explore introspection, presence, and serenity. Here, I’m sharing my personal experiences with these authors’ works and how they have enriched my mindfulness journey. 

    Swan Huntley • Tarcher Perigee

    So many of us access the same tools when it comes to cultivating a mindfulness practice, but I’m always interested in new and different ways to deepen my practice. Swan Huntley is at the top of my list when I look towards tools that invite me to embrace mindfulness through a slightly different lens. Her illustrations are reminders that keeping it simple and having a sense of humor isn’t a bad thing. As I read through her “anti-self-help” book, I find myself asking myself, How can we take ourselves less seriously? 

    You’re Grounded is a refreshing take on the self-help genre, offering practical advice with a humorous twist. Huntley’s witty and relatable approach makes mindfulness accessible, encouraging readers to find balance through laughter and self-compassion. One of the book’s standout moments is when Huntley writes, “Once in a while, I walk from East LA to the beach (it’s far), and every time, I think: Am I literally trying to walk away from myself right now?” Aside from reminding Angelenos of the Missing Persons lyric, “Nobody walks in LA,” Huntley addresses the flaneur in all of us. As she walks the streets of Los Angeles, she makes mental notes to improve anything that makes her feel “less than” and settles for the idea of improvement vs. the thing itself. These pages remind us of the human condition and our tendency to place obstacles on our path toward leading a more mindful life. Swan Huntley has tips for all of us to get out of our own way and embrace mindfulness with good, gentle humor. 

    Read Swan Huntley for practical advice about mindfulness and keeping a sense of humor and self-compassion.

    Danielle Dutton • Coffee House Press

    In mindfulness, where every moment invites us to experience the world with heightened awareness, literature offers us the opportunity to get lost in a narrative, and sometimes, without realizing it, we find ourselves coming away from our experience with a heightened sense of ourselves and our surroundings as a result. One such work that offers a profound exploration of this concept is Dutton’s latest book, Prairie, Dresses, Art, Other—a shimmering and perplexing collection that defies the constraints of traditional prose. Dutton, most recently known for her novel Margaret the First, shares a new series of essays and experimental writings that challenge conventional storytelling notions. Her work is not merely about conveying a narrative; it’s about capturing the ineffable—the feelings, the sensations, and the fleeting moments that often escape words. With an intellectually stimulating and mischievously playful style, Dutton’s writing invites comparison to the form-breaking thrills of authors like Anne Carson or perhaps even Gertrude Stein. Her stories are curious and help readers land someplace they’ve never been. To my mind, this is what all good writing should do. 

    At its core, Dutton’s book explores how stories can transcend their textual boundaries to offer something far more moving—a sense of presence, a way of looking or knowing, and a space wherein we can fully attend to the world at hand. Through these essays, she poses questions that deeply resonate with the mindful reader. How can a story embody a specific way of seeing?  How might we write about something that isn’t meant to be read but felt? The questions that arise feel reminiscent of those asked of the reader in John Berger’s Ways of Seeing. How does our perspective influence the narrative? Or does it?

    How does our perspective influence the narrative? Or does it?

    Through its genre-bending structure, Dutton’s book becomes more than just a collection of essays; it’s an invitation to engage with the text mindfully, considering how words move us and how a narrative can help us shift our perspective. For those who read with a mindful eye, this work offers a different opportunity to explore the intersection of life and language by examining the collage of art, literature, and consciousness that Dutton has artfully curated in these pages.

    Read Danielle Dutton for her attention to detail and a keen eye for observing people, objects, and art, a la Gertrude Stein, while keeping us engaged through different writing styles and spaces of experience.

    Ocean Vuong • Penguin Press

    Embracing mindfulness through literature involves examining how stories affect us—how they evoke introspection, empathy, and compassion. Ocean Vuong’s On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous showcases the true healing power of storytelling. His exploration of identity, memory, and trauma is delivered with lyrical grace. One striking excerpt from Vuong’s work is, “In the body, where everything has a price, I was a beggar. On my knees, I watched, and watched, but could not see. Only through words could I be.” A curious mind is only one of the necessary ingredients for a good writer. Vuong is an excellent storyteller, and the vulnerability he taps into to share his story helps the reader reflect on their stories and find solace in self-expression.

    Vuong’s depiction of desire as a vehicle for “failing forward” is particularly fascinating. He frames much of his narrative as a meditation on failure and its stigma, suggesting it is a necessary tool for success, both as a human and a writer. He states, “In this country, we shame failure. When people fail, we cast them aside, but for queer folks, failure becomes a necessary practice towards success, so we fail forward. I think I wanted the book to keep returning to failure until it triumphs despite its bumbling.” Vuong echoes Samuel Beckett’s call to “Fail Better,” an idea requiring significant awareness and mindful action. By engaging with Vuong’s work, readers can cultivate mindfulness, allowing for failure as part of their journey toward personal growth and understanding.

    Read Ocean Vuong to witness the transformative power of language and the act of writing as a form of mindfulness.

    Renee Gladman • Dorothy, A Publishing Project 

    To After That by Renee Gladman is a contemplative exploration of the writing process. It combines equal parts memoir and fiction in a manner that deeply resonates with the principles of mindfulness. Gladman invites us on a journey to complete an unfinished novel, inviting us into her thoughts and struggles as she grapples with the act of creation. This introspective narrative is not just about writing but about the experience of being present with one’s thoughts, emotions, and insecurities.

    Gladman’s work emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, asking us to embrace the moment, a core tenet of mindfulness. Her reflections on the challenges and joys of writing mirror the mindful practice of observing without judgment. She shows how the writing process, like mindfulness, requires patience, acceptance, and a willingness to sit with discomfort. And if you’ve ever sat down to write anything, you will also have experience with the harsh inner critic that emerges. 

    The writing process, like mindfulness, requires patience, acceptance, and a willingness to sit with discomfort.

    Through her poetic and fragmented prose, Gladman captures the ebb and flow of inspiration and doubt. To After That is a compelling recommendation for those interested in mindfulness, as it illustrates how integral mindfulness is to our creative process. What happens when we are attentive and present? How does our creative process help enrich our understanding of ourselves? Keeping a sense of “don’t know mind” allows for anyone creating to do so from a genuine place of authenticity.

    In one passage, Gladman writes, “To write is to trace the contours of thought, to follow the meandering path of the mind.” To be mindful is to pay attention to what’s happening when we sit, just as a writer does when they sit down to write. Being curious is the connective tissue where mindfulness and creativity are concerned, and Gladman’s innovative approach to narrative encourages readers to do just that. When we embrace the unpredictability of life, we are better able to find meaning in the journey. 

    Read Renee Gladman for a meditation on the creative process, filled with fragmented thoughts and reflections that echo the complexities of the mind.

    John Freeman • Copper Canyon Press

    When I’m looking for ways to ground myself, I often look toward nature. Sinking my toes into the sand on Santa Monica beach is always my go-to when I want to connect to the earth. But when I can’t get to the beach, I look to John Freeman’s poetry to help me find my center. Freeman has authored three poetry collections. His latest, Wind, Trees, explores the intersection of nature and humanity. His poems are infused with a sense of wonder and reverence for the environment, making them a perfect companion for mindful reflection. One of Freeman’s most moving observations, “The trees teach us patience, standing tall through seasons of change. In their stillness, we find our own,” captures the essence of mindfulness, encouraging readers to learn from nature’s quiet strength.

    John Freeman’s poetry, particularly in poems like “The Park” and “Maps,” offers profound insights that invoke a need to look more closely at our surroundings and our emotions. Cultivating inner awareness seems like a natural by-product of Freeman’s poetry. His ability to draw wisdom from the natural world encourages a reconnection with nature and a search for stillness in its quiet strength. As Freeman writes in “The Park,” “Everywhere I turn, the earth reclaims us, the leaves of time falling softly.” His poems lead readers on a contemplative journey through both external landscapes and inner terrains, inviting a profound reconnection with the natural world and their inner selves.

    Read John Freeman for his attention to detail and evocative imagery that encourages readers to pause and appreciate the present, fostering a mindful awareness of life’s transience.

    The Way Forward

    Yung Pueblo • Andrews McMeel Publishing

    Yung Pueblo‘s latest book, The Way Forward, is the compelling conclusion to his profound trilogy on mindfulness and personal growth. This third installment invites readers to delve deeper into the journey toward authentic living and harmonious relationships. With his signature poetic style and profound simplicity, Pueblo guides us through the complexities of our emotional landscape, offering practical tools for healing and transformation.

    In The Way Forward, Pueblo expands on the themes of his earlier works, Inward and Clarity & Connection, exploring the evolution from self-love to unconditional love, the power of letting go, and the profound wisdom found in true self-awareness. He eloquently captures how intense emotions shape our behaviors and shows us how to release the past for genuine growth.

    “True healing begins when we allow ourselves to feel the full spectrum of our emotions, and through that process, we uncover the strength within.”

    Yung Pueblo

    Pueblo’s prose is both accessible and profound, making mindfulness a tangible practice for everyday life. He beautifully articulates, “True healing begins when we allow ourselves to feel the full spectrum of our emotions, and through that process, we uncover the strength within.” This book is an enduring support for anyone seeking to navigate life’s challenges with grace and cultivate lasting inner peace

    Read Yung Pueblo to read the things on paper you already know in your heart to be true.

    All of these authors have varied voices and unique perspectives that have allowed me to deepen my mindfulness practice. I constantly call upon these works when I need to reflect, both as a writer and a human, on what it means to be present with what’s on the page and in my own day-to-day life. Life typically leads us down a long and winding road, which makes these contemporary voices all the more critical when we look for guidance and inspiration in the pages of their books. 



    Source link

  • The leap from clinical to private practice

    The leap from clinical to private practice


    Jodie Sheraton started her dietetics career with a $2000 loan from her parents, a printed ad in the Yellow Pages and a ‘can-do’ attitude. Seventeen years later, she has not one, but three successful businesses under her belt, and splits her time between running her multiple-clinic private practices and helping other dietitians increase their impact and income. In this episode, Jodie explains how her willingness to say ‘yes’ has contributed to her many successes. Jodie also shares her three pillars for building a sustainable business, while shining the spotlight on the importance of a life-long commitment to learning and why you should always back yourself.

    Hosted by Brooke Delfino

    Biography

    Jodie Sheraton is the founder of Elevated Dietetics, where she helps clinic-based private practice dietitian business owners increase their impact, influence and income. Jodie’s journey from a new graduate dietitian working in a hospital to a successful private practice owner is nothing short of inspiring. She has not only grown her business, Optimum Intake Dietitians, to a large team of dietitians, but also founded Myrtle Oak Clinic, a specialised eating disorder clinic. And now she’s using her wealth of knowledge and experience to provide coaching and support to fellow dietitian private practice owners to grow their businesses and teams.

    In this episode, we discuss:

    • Why stepping out of your comfort zone is essential for growth
    • The importance of collaborating with people whose values match your own
    • Getting comfortable talking about money
    • The many rewards and challenges that come with being a business owner


    Additional resources

    Connect with Jodie at elevateddietetics.com.au, on LinkedIn or Instagram @elevated_dietetics


    The content, products and/or services referred to in this episode are intended for Health Care Professionals only and are not, and are not intended to be, medical advice, which should be tailored to your individual circumstances. The content is for your information only, and we advise that you exercise your own judgement before deciding to use the information provided. Professional medical advice should be obtained before taking action. The reference to particular products and/or services in this episode does not constitute any form of endorsement. Please see here for terms and conditions.


    Source link
  • How Present-Moment Awareness Can Make Life More Meaningful

    How Present-Moment Awareness Can Make Life More Meaningful

    Presence is meditation in motion. It is the practice of bringing mindfulness into the activities of daily life. We can practice the art of being here, now, while waiting in a long grocery store line, changing a baby’s diaper, or sitting in traffic.

    Presence involves a simple yet incredible shift—from the ordinary state of mind wandering to bringing our attention to the experience of what is happening right now. You can make this shift anytime, anywhere. 

    Why develop this habit? Spiritual leaders and philosophers have attempted to answer this question for thousands of years. And yet Ferris Bueller (the impetuous high school student from the classic 1986 film) might just have the best answer: “Life moves pretty fast,” he warned. “If you don’t stop and look around for a while, you might miss it.”

    He’s right. Life without presence moves pretty fast. When we wake up, go to work, and do the other things we need to do, we often operate on autopilot; the days fly by, as do the weeks, months, and years. In fact, scientists have confirmed that this experience of time “flying by” increases with age. With each passing year, the novelty of life diminishes and our perception of time accelerates.

     When we wake up, go to work, and do the other things we need to do, we often operate on autopilot; the days fly by, as do the weeks, months, and years. 

    This has led the mindfulness teacher Jon Kabat-Zinn to argue that if you really want to live a longer life, presence—not drugs, healthy eating, or any other strategy—is the best solution. You may not actually live longer in terms of calendar time, but your experience of life and your perception of time will expand. The days, months, and years can be richer, more meaningful, and more fully lived.

    Appreciating the fall leaves, listening to the crunch under your feet as you walk on the winter snow, smelling the scents of flowers or fresh-cut grass, feeling the warmth of the summer sun—these simple acts of presence slow life down. They help us go through each day feeling more alive, awake, and content.

    There are other benefits, too. Presence doesn’t simply change the quality of being. It can also transform the quality of what you do, leading to greater creative flow, enhanced relationships, and increased productivity at home and at work. 

    Through developing the habit of presence, we can get in touch with the fundamental wonder of what it is to be alive, and even the most ordinary moments become extraordinary.

    How to Stay in the Present Moment

    But it’s not that simple. There’s also something quite mysterious about this moment. It’s not like the past, which stretches infinitely behind us. It’s also not like the future, which stretches infinitely ahead. In fact, the moment you try to capture it, it’s gone. It becomes just another part of the past. 

    Philosophers have strived to define the present moment. While some have seen it as almost nonexistent—fleeting and infinitely thin—others saw it as having infinite depth. 

    In fact, the ancient Greeks identified three ways that opening to the present moment increases the depth of our experience and productive possibilities of each moment. First, when we fully experience what is here and now, we no longer postpone what we most want. We live our fullest life now. The philosopher Epicurus captures this ethos of urgency:

    “We are only born once—twice is not allowed—and it is necessary that we shall be no more, for all eternity; and yet you, who are not master of tomorrow, you keep on putting off your joy?”

    This is something many of us have experienced. Have you ever heard the shocking and sad news that someone close to you has died and then thought, Am I living life as fully and as presently possible? Death makes us acutely aware of our aliveness and the preciousness of each moment.

    Second, attending to the present moment enables us to take advantage of the full range of possibilities that exist in each moment. This helps us adapt to even the most challenging situations. If you’re stuck at the airport with a long delay, you can let your mind swirl with thoughts about the past and future: I should have taken the earlier flight or I am going to be so late and tired. Or you can experience the power of the present moment and take advantage of the new possibilities available to you as a result of the delay: go for a brisk walk through the concourse, read for pleasure, eat a meal, or catch up with friends on the phone. 

    When we manage to enter the razor-thin moment of presence, something amazing happens: anxieties and resentments dissolve. We experience more ease, calm, and peace.

    Being present opens up a third possibility: happiness and well-being. When we spend the day traveling through the past and future, we tend to get trapped in a host of negative emotions, from anxiety to irritation to resentment. The Epicurean school of ancient Greek thought used sayings like this: “Senseless people live in hope for the future, and since this cannot be certain, they are consumed by fear and anxiety.” 

    When we manage to enter the razor-thin moment of presence, something amazing happens: anxieties and resentments dissolve. We experience more ease, calm, and peace. In short, we experience more well-being. What is the present moment? This almost sounds like a trick question. Everyone knows that the present moment is what’s happening now. The wind in the trees, the touch of fabric against your skin, your dog brushing up against your leg. 

    The Science and Practice of Presence

    The science on this is clear. Spending more time in the present moment leads to greater happiness.  A Harvard University study conducted in 2010 by Matthew A. Killingsworth and Daniel T. Gilbert, for example, revealed that happiness is inversely related to mind wandering—the amount of time that we spend time traveling through thoughts about past and future.  

    Killingsworth and Gilbert discovered that most of us spend a lot of time mind wandering—distracted from the present moment. In fact, the average person spends 47 percent of the day mind wandering: thinking about something other than his or her present activity.

    Their key insight, however, wasn’t just that our minds wander. It was the link between presence and happiness. Killingsworth concluded, “How often our minds leave the present and where they tend to go is a better predictor of our happiness than the activities in which we are engaged.” In other words, this landmark study shows that one of the keys to happiness lies in simply redirecting our attention from mind wandering and distraction to what’s happening right here, right now in the present moment.

     A Practice to Shift Your Attention to the Present Moment

    1. Notice—see if you can become aware—each time you step into the shower. 
    2. Shift your attention to the sights, sounds, and bodily sensations of the present moment. To do this, we recommend that you ground your feet and bring your attention to your breath. Use what we call the “4×4 breath” or the box breath—four counts in, four counts out, for four breaths. This move will help you begin building the habit of shifting your attention from mind wandering and stress to the present moment. 
    3. Rewire—encode this experience deep into your memory by savoring it for just 15 to 30 seconds.

    Quick Tips

    • Do it every day: Practice presence every day and, if you forget to do it in the shower,  practice presence during some other everyday life moment, such as walking up the stairs or starting your car.
    • How to remember to do it: The most difficult thing about building this habit is remembering. To help you remember, we have developed a low-tech but extremely effective method. Put a sticker at eye level on your shower door. If you don’t want to use a sticker (or don’t have a shower door), you could use a piece of masking tape with “Presence” written on it. After a month or so, once the habit is ingrained, you may find that you no longer need it.
    • How you know its working: After a couple of weeks or a month, you will likely start to notice that you no longer need to consciously remember to experience presence. It just starts to happen as you enter the shower. This is the magic moment of habit formation. It means that your brain has wired a new set of connections around this everyday activity.
    • If you want more: If you have mastered the habit in the shower, try adding an advanced cue: stairs. Every time you walk up or down a flight of stairs, see if you can be present. This is a perfect time to feel the sensations in your feet or to bring your attention to the sights and sounds that occur as you step. This additional cue will take you even deeper into the experience of presence.

    Adapted from Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing by Eric Langshur and Nate Klemp, PhD.

    Mindfulness teacher Jason Gant reflects on a heartfelt memory when he was able to lean on his deep practice and mindfully take action. Read More 

    Reclaim the first few moments of your day by dedicating some time to morning meditation or an empowering routine. To help you get started, we’ve gathered our best tips on how to ease your mind and body into a new day. Read More 

    • Mindful Staff
    • April 28, 2021

    Tita Angangco, cofounder of The Centre for Mindfulness Studies, shares a loving-kindness meditation that serves as an ignition to spark change. Read More 

    • Tita Angangco
    • April 12, 2021



    Source link

  • Let Your Practice Guide You Beyond Crisis Mode

    Let Your Practice Guide You Beyond Crisis Mode

    The pandemic tested many of us on every level: mental, physical, emotional, and financial. Whether it was the endless hours on Zoom, the extended periods of isolation, not being able to do the things we loved or see the people we cared about, the past year and a half has taken a toll on all of us as we’ve moved in and out of crisis mode. As a meditation teacher, I have noticed one kind of challenge in particular: For some people, this was the most time they had actually had to spend with themselves without external distractions. Understandably daunting, for those who have kept busy enough to avoid being alone with themselves for most of their lives. 

    Mindfulness, yoga, meditation, and breathwork all became desired tools to get through each day of lockdowns. I continue to be inspired by the shift I have seen in so many of my clients—Fortune 500 companies, entrepreneurs, soul seekers, and conscious leaders—during this period. And my own mindfulness path has taught me that challenges can always be a portal to growth if we can take a moment to pause, reflect, and develop practices to build inner strength and resilience that nothing outside of us can disrupt.  

    My mindfulness practice came to me when my life was crumbling and in crisis mode. Like most of society I had learned from an early age to lean on everything outside of myself to define my happiness and success. So, in a period of my life when I was stripped of work, relationships, goals, and personal timelines for accomplishing a number of things, I crumbled. It was one of those moments where there was nowhere to go, but in. This moment was a not so gentle nudge to start exploring what it meant for me personally to “journey inward” and discover tools and practices that could aid me on my journey. 

    Making Mindfulness a Way of Life

    Since 2007 I have trained physically to climb mountains. For me, not being a naturally skilled athlete, climbing is 20% physical and 80% mental. When I summited peaks like Mt. Everest, it was mindfulness that was the game changer in my training, that got me up the mountain. My daily practice truly developed after my successful summit in 2013. Before that, I was using my mindfulness practice only as a tool to get out of a “hot mess” state or to accomplish major goals—mindfulness needed to become a way of life. Otherwise, I would simply keep arriving at the same place with nowhere to turn, but inward.

    When my life is chaotic, mindfulness provides an almost instantaneous relief. For those few seconds or minutes when I practice, I can feel a sense of deep inner peace. In moments of heightened stress, anxiety, depression, sadness, or fear, it’s easy for me to practice regularly. But, when life eases its grip, my practice can fall lower on the priority list. When the urgent need for relief dissipates, I can get lulled into thinking my practice is less important.

    When my life is chaotic, mindfulness provides an almost instantaneous relief.

    We will continue to encounter those peaks and valleys in life, and so having a tool to help us remain centered and well at either end of the spectrum and everywhere in between remains critically important. I look at this as an aspect of prevention. We exercise our bodies, eat well, and get adequate sleep to remain healthy and keep our immunity levels high—it’s best not to wait to start these things only after a major health crisis. And I’ve realized it’s the same with keeping my heart and mind well. Both according to research and anecdotally, mindfulness can help people manage depression, stress, anxiety, compulsiveness, aid in better quality of sleep, keep better focus, and the list goes on. While a life or work crisis can be the spark of inspiration to start practicing mindfulness, a new crisis or challenging moment doesn’t need to be the reminder to keep practicing. 

    Coming Home to Yourself

    With mindfulness practice, I’ve come to realize I always have the choice to not get swept away with whatever is going on outside, but to reconnect with myself—to come home to myself, as some meditation teachers say. This is something available to us with every single intentional breath we take. I value my practice not only because it’s comforting or calming; it also helps me let go of the idea that joy, peace, and success are external. The more I practice and connect with inner peace, the more I take back my power, instead of depending on external things, people, or factors to provide this for me. 

    Beginning to emerge from the pandemic, I face a new decision: Whether I’ll continue to lean on my practice as the world begins to open, or drift away from it in the excitement of returning to former ways of living and working. The reality is that who I was pre-pandemic has changed. Having grown through this global challenge, I know I have an opportunity for reflection, before diving back into the way things were—into who I was—to decide who I will be going forward.

    Let Your Practice Guide You 

    When training for my climbs, my mental training was increasingly more important than the physical. 100% of how we respond to extreme environments and unpredictable circumstances depends on our mind, on our ability to cultivate inner calm and come home to ourselves, despite the intensity that surrounds us at times. As we move forward to create a new normal—a world that is more aware, compassionate, and interconnected—let’s continue to lean on our practice to consistently remind us of our inner home, not only for our own benefit, but for those around us.

    I invite you to reflect on these prompts to clarify your intentions around self-care for this next chapter:

    • What did I learn about myself over these past 16 months?
    • What practices helped me most in my overall well-being?
    • What shifted most for me during this time?
    • How did I better prioritize self-care and compassion during this time?
    • How can I lean further into my practice, now that life seems to be going back to a normal I once knew?
    • Did I discover a hidden gift about myself, life, work, during this time? 

    A 12-Minute Meditation for Coming Home to Yourself

    When we start to build a mindfulness practice that brings us home to ourselves, it helps us let go of the desire to seek a sense of comfort or stability outside ourselves. Explore this variation on a loving-kindness meditation to feel more grounded and at ease, no matter your external circumstances. 

    1. Find a quiet space where you will not be distracted. Take a seat on the floor or on a chair. Keep your spine straight. Place your palms on your lap facing up. Close your eyes or simply lower your gaze. Ease into your seat. 
    1. Start connecting with your breath. If your mind is busy, you can count your breaths as above to refocus and slow down. 
    1. Connect with the rhythm of your breath. With each inhale ground yourself a little more into your seat. With each exhale let go of any tension, worries, doubts, or fears that arise. 
    1. As you inhale next, feel the beauty of the breath moving through your body. Connect with a sense of renewal and ease.
    2. As you exhale, release any remaining tension a little bit more, embracing a feeling of lightness come over you. 
    1. As you inhale, softly mentally affirm, “I am safe, I am home.” As you exhale, softly mentally affirm, “I am well, and at ease.”
    1. Continue with these affirmations and cycles of breath until you feel a shift within you. Feel your sense of safety, joy, ease, and peace and with each breath come home more to yourself.

    I revisit this practice weekly to ground me and feel safe, regardless of what might be happening around me or whether I’m in crisis mode. It’s a beautiful way to start your day. I also have practiced these affirmations while climbing intense sections on peaks or in the midst of stressful or fearful situations, reminding myself I can always come back to the safety of my home within.

    Never Miss a Meditation

    Enter your email below to get new podcast episodes delivered straight to your inbox! You’ll also get insights from expert mindfulness teachers and exclusive deals on Mindful Shop products, events, and more.

    When we allow what is to simply be, we relieve ourselves of the suffering that can get heaped on top of our moments of difficulty. That extra suffering is optional, even if the difficult causes and conditions are not. Read More 

    • Frank Ostaseski
    • May 19, 2022

    When Georgina Miranda was diagnosed with severe asthma, she realized how working with mindfulness could help her find the courage not only to summit mountains, but also to slow down and embrace taking things one breath at a time. Read More 

    • Georgina Miranda
    • November 6, 2021

    Compassion is the emerging paradigm of great leadership, writes Georgina Miranda—yet the most challenging part may be cultivating compassion for ourselves. Here she offers practical ways leaders can show themselves the same kindness they wish to show others. Read More 

    • Georgina Miranda
    • March 16, 2022



    Source link